Showing posts with label Hijab. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Hijab. Show all posts

Sunday, October 29, 2006

The Hijaab – The Mark of Faithfulness

The Hijaab – The Mark of Faithfulness
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Faten Elayoubi
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British politician Jack Straw recently commented that he thought the hijaab was "a visible statement of separation and difference", whilst Prime Minister Tony Blair backed his comments. Instead of concentrating on trying to bridge the gaps between the community, a minority are dividing it even more. As a Muslim woman who wears the hijaab I feel that it is the people who are speaking out against the hijaab who are separating us from the rest of society. I feel that they do not truly understand the reasons behind why we choose to wear it; hence you will find them speaking without wisdom.
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Our lives as Muslims center on trying to please our Lord through following His commandments. We believe that He is the One who knows what is best for His creation for He is the All-Knowing, the All-Wise. He explains to us through His revelation that He created mankind and jinn (creation made of smokeless fire) only to worship Him. One of the commandments brought down by Allaah is for both men and women to be modest.
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Lo! men who surrender unto Allah, and women who surrender, and men who believe and women who believe, and men who obey and women who obey, and men who speak the truth and women who speak the truth, and men who persevere (in righteousness) and women who persevere, and men who are humble and women who are humble, and men who give alms and women who give alms, and men who fast and women who fast, and men who guard their modesty and women who guard (their modesty), and men who remember Allah much and women who remember Allah hath prepared for them forgiveness and a vast reward. Al-Qur'aan, 33:35
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One of the ways that both men and women have been commanded to be modest, is to dress in an appropriate manner. For women this includes wearing the hijaab, or as many know it, the headscarf.
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And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and be modest, and to display of their adornment only that which is apparent, and to draw their veils over their bosoms, and not to reveal their adornment save to their own husbands or fathers or husbands fathers, or their sons or their husbands' sons, or their brothers or their brothers' sons or sisters sons, or their women, or their slaves, or male attendants who lack vigour, or children who know naught of women' s nakedness. And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment. And turn unto Allah together, O believers, in order that ye may succeed. Al-Qur'aan 24:31
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O Prophet! Tell thy wives and thy daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks close round them (when they go abroad). That will be better, that so they may be recognized and not annoyed. Allah is ever Forgiving, Merciful. Al-Qur'aan 33:59
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The hijaab is a protection against abuse and temptation from the outside world. It protects a woman from the prying eyes of strangers. The hijaab forces people to judge her based on her personality and the way she carries herself as a woman, instead of judging her based on her looks, the way she is dressed, or what brand of clothing she is wearing. She is a woman who looks after herself, keeps her beauty hidden to everyone except those whom Allaah has made an exception to and carries herself with dignity lessening the chances of someone annoying her, as the ayah itself states. In his tafsir (explanation) of the Qur'aan, Ibn Kathir interprets the ayah:
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"…that so they may be recognised and not annoyed" Al-Qur'aan 33:59
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to mean "That if they do that (i.e. draw their cloaks around them); it will be known that they are free, and that they are not servants or whores."
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Ibn Kathir also explains the ayah:
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"And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and be modest, and to display of their adornment only that which is apparent, and to draw their veils over their bosoms…" Al-Qur'aan 24:31
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to signify that "This is a command from Allah to the believing women, and jealousy on His part over the wives of His believing servants. It is also to distinguish the believing women from the women of the Jahiliyyah (ignorance) and the deeds of the pagan women."
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So from this we can see that a woman in hijaab is recognised as a Muslim woman, a woman who respects herself and the people around her, and this in turn demands respect to be shown to her.
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In conclusion, a woman who wears the hijaab, including the one who chooses to include the face veil as part of her dress code, is different. She is different to a woman who chooses to show off her beauty to the rest of the world, and she should not feel pressured into doing something she is not comfortable with. A woman in hijaab does not separate herself from the outside world as a whole; instead she separates herself from the filth that one can come across in this world; she moves away from the things that may harm her and brings herself closer to her Lord. She allows the hijaab to be a cover between her and the corruption that may lie ahead of her.

Tuesday, October 03, 2006

Prostitution - behind the veil!

Assalamu alaykum
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Ok.. now its really bugging me that Muslim women claimed that they have rights, they are liberated, they are the ones that Islam has honoured them really is that really rue, is that projected from our action?... now I can hear some shocks and some eyebrows are sure to be raised after reading what I have just wrote. If you are a woman reading this, I ask you, when was the last time you truly defended YOUR RIGHT to wear hijab? And I don't just mean the line "Its the gift from Allah" or, "we are gems... we need to cover out beauty"... I mean from the heart, the words with meaning that tear jerking, heart wrenching pull on those who do not wear it, making them feel THEY are the ones at loss. I am sure you have been asked a thousand times... "WHY?!".. "Why, do you follow a religion that oppresses women", "Why do you HAVE to cover", and how many times have you been told "You're a woman, be proud!" "You're beautiful, be proud of your curves!!!"
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Sisters to you I tell you this.... wake up and look around you, we are being represented and misrepresented by anyone and anything that will spark controversy... you only have to turn to your 'well researched' Docu-dramas that are finding their ways onto main stream media. Just yesterday I was disgusted at a documentary on Channel 4, Prostitution - Behind the veil, naturally it had veil in the title so I was intrigued. But low and behold, what do I find a seemingly well founded, factual documentary depicting women, MUSLIM WOMEN as prostitues! Lahowlawala quwata! I felt sick and was in tears at what I saw...
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SYNOPSIS: CUTTING EDGE: PROSTITUTION BEHIND THE VEIL Directed by Nahid Persson, who fled from Iran 20 years ago, this documentary unveils the lives of two women, Minna and Fariba, who work as prostitutes in the Muslim society of Iran. Minna and Fariba are neighbours and good friends, who support each other. Both have to live with the widespread mistreatment of women and the double standards that permeate Iranian society today. Minna and Fariba both make a living from finding male customers on the streets. They have a choice between leaving their small children at home alone or taking them along when they have sex with various men. The film portrays the women sympathetically and explores their everyday life and the way prostitution functions in a country where it is banned and where adultery is persecuted, sometimes resulting in capital punishment. Many of the womens punters find a way to buy sex and still comply in Muslim law: they marry with the women in what is called Sighe, a temporary marriage legal in Shia Islam. Sighe can last from two hours up to 99 years. (From Denmark, in Farsi and Swedish, English subtitles)
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The documentary allowed two (Shia) Muslim Women in Iraq, selling their Izat, OUR IZAT for no more then $10... They were driven to do such a thing to feed their children, and their heroin addictions... They had no use for Islam, and little understanding... one of them at one point riped her tiny little scarf off exclaiming "damed veil".... Oh my dear sisters.. look at how your right to wear hijab is being portrayed in all its glory.
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Ok at first I just could not understand the audacity that these so called women could, would should do such things... things that I cannot repeat without going red with anger and shyness. But then I asked myself why am I getting angry at these women. As the documentary progressed it showed the reasons why these two women were heroin addicts, and guess what... guess who introduced them to the intoxicants... it was their husbands, the fathers of their innocent children.
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What has driven them to such extreme, it was the action of their protectors, their maintainers. As a result not only did the women blame their situation, but they also blamed the country, the fact that shariah law is forced upon them, indeed they were blaming Allah... Astagfarullah.</DIV>
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The documentary covered other issues such as quick marraiages, and having 'Sighe', which is apparently Halal (legal) in (Shia) Shariah law! It showed how one of the womens Sighe would beat her up and her baby, how a man can abuse women in the most horrendous way, how a man in his late 60s married a young runaway 17 year old girl, by a 'Imaam'</EM>! Their men are beyond words that he sold one of the womans daughter! What kind of man does that?! I felt sick! And we asked ourselves, why do people hate Islam so much!!
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Now their husbands were in jail, they were left to fend for themselves, what else does a woman have of worth... but herself, the one thing that man desire. They were in possession of a mighty powerful tool, and so they used it to their advantage. They sold themseleves. Look at them now.
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The children... they were not sensored, they would be witness to their mothers 'getting high' and probably inhaled some of the drug too, and worse still, the children would have to go on the streets with thier mothers, get in the car with total strangers, be witness to how much the price of their mothers honour is prices at, be witness to these fithy men talking fith to their mothers, what effect would this have on their small, innocent lives?
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So to you, the Muslim woman, I ask you, what are you doing to truly portray Islam, what are you doing to defend the honour of your sisters, how are we showing others the Haqq, how are we exemplifying the deen of Allah, what will we say in front of Allah, what will I say in front of my Lord, the most high.
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what are you doing... what are YOU doing, what are WE doing, what am I doing??
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food for thought this Ramadan
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wassalam </DIV>
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